What is love? How to live? What is valuable in this world?.. We always search an answer for these questions. And all efforts of sages, writers and philosophers to define these feelings are in vain as though there are no rules, there are no right answers, and we cannot set certain borders for these feelings. I hope that parables about love and life will help you however to get some answers. But I also hope that there will be new questions – because only asking yourself you can cognize the World and the Love!
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Friends!

We can investigate the phenomena of love in all its aspects on our site www.meeeting42.com together with other participants.

Love has as its source sexual sensuality, but is not exhausted by it. There is something immeasurably greater with it: the union of souls, the self-disclosing of the person, the texture of mind, eg. wit, passion, and will.

Expectation - acquaintance - honey period - awakening - own history …These are stages of development and interlacing of all kinds of the love attitudes(relations) ….

Eternal and always new …

Is in this movement something general? Whether it is possible to learn(find out) and to prevent some difficulties of the love relations and to come nearer to dream in reality ( moment one’s waking)?

The materials of this part of a site www.meeeting42.com will be effective at crises, which experience ALL (but not all reflect about it) in process development of the relations. By the way, what is crisis? Whether it is terrible? What you know about it or what do you think? Can, you have any happy, ridiculous, sad, very clever or on the contrary, very much naive discoverings? Your special sight on the relations in life and to life?

Everybody is equal when it comes to love. Age, education, sex, country of residence, these do not give any essential advantage, and everyone can be the expert in the unique shades of a theme and bring in the experience to general research

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It is that feeling of arousal, of pleasure, of believing in yourself when you think of the one you love. You have a thirst for health, fitness, wellbeing, hope and trust. And it just has to be expressed.

Thus is explained the Knight in shining armour, in love with his charming and beautiful Lady, and the oath by which he proclaims his love for her. An oath which is an expression of their mutual understanding, respect, happiness, harmony and unsurpassed love, that perfect destiny which two lovers so fond of each other aspire to.

When you grow really fond of someone you will put the happiness of that person before your own happiness. You will want to express those feelings of amazement, intensity of feeling and tenderness, in words more beautiful and expressive than you’ve ever heard before.

And when you decide to express your love in words it takes considerable effort, will and wisdom to find just those words which are most worthy of the sentiment. In times gone by the special rhythm and rhyme of such verses were learnt by heart because they evoked sweet sensations of togetherness, trembling and mutual passion.

Read the verses. We offer you our favourites, but you too can send us the verses of the poets you most admire, or even write some exquisite love-lines yourself and send them to us to share with everyone. Send mail.

Look at Aphorisms. Read just a few words. When it is the right mix of emotion, earnestness and adoration, they are powerful enough to melt the stoniest of hearts and kindle a love story to of epic proportions.

Love permeates our life far deeper than we think possible. What can we do after it? Read aphorisms, think of it and feel inspired! We can start from writing a romantic letter or call to say words of love…...

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Are you here looking for true love?

With separation and divorce so commonplace that most people see them as inevitable, it seems the very idea of marital commitment is fast becoming an alien one. What's gone wrong with all of us? Maybe we need more romance in our lives? Maybe we take our own lives and ourselves too seriously but ignore others? Maybe we need a fresh view? Only when we laugh at ourselves can we study in something new. Read Jokes, Gags about: marriage – relations between a man and woman - domestic relations - ethics of relations – secrets of seduction – senses – desire love passion - sex- wedding - family - husband - wife- wedding - fiancee - fiances – bridegroom - get married – ect.

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What can we do to find our true love? To be in contact with our soulmate?

Only a few people seem willing to work at making it at last.

Technical progress has created a real miracle for us - the internet. We can record video, shoot still photos, record voice messages, save and send romantic songs, romantic poetry, romantic scenery, romantic landmarks or landscapes, write and send and receive romantic messages in all forms: joke, flirt, ask forgiveness… Anything!.. In just a few seconds! … Several times in our short life, we tell our partner these magic words to unlock a sea of positive emotions towards each other. Look at our texts ! Could you send one love letter right now!

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Dear Friends!

We do not know all the subtleties of our own character and our own feelings sometimes. How could we understand others? We offer you help in your investigations of your internal world. Loot in our tests. How ready are we for a new meeting?

However it is not necessary to perceive the received results as "verdict". There are no "good" or "bad" results. The tests can only open some your features and show a direction for the further self-research. But nevertheless some part of the truth is in them. The comprehension of your individuality, uniqueness, originality is a direct way fortunately and success!

Also do not forget about a sense of humour.

We wish you good luck!

Glance in the Psychology section for love and marriage on our site www.meeting42.com, and you may well find something of interest to you.It is very important to probe human relations, relations man - woman, development of relations.

• What people that are in love can do and whether they should abandon their interests for the sake of others? And you?
• Whether when they do(make) it it is realized or it simply because " so it turns out "? And you?
• Why so frequently do we suffer from it? Have you suffered? NO? Maybe you have lost your capacity to be sensitive?
• How it turns out, what in "love" relations the people can lie for the sake of remarkable another, coordinate in pity to themselves, be upset because of the unfulfilled expectations, to try to supervise (control) another, to do something unusual to themselves from revenge, etc.?
• What is the contact? Why and how people lose contact?
• Why, leaving from contact, the people frequently take offence, are angry, disappointed with themself, feel powerlessness to change something, and most important - are afraid to lose the partner, if would do themself in another way - will change the behaveiour?
• What do you know and what do you think about this?
• PASSION? Also what is this? Whether it was in your life?
• Whether you are ready to pay the appropriate price for depth of your experiences? What is it?
• Whether you aspire to feel PASSION again and again? Whether you feel yourselves devastated after that allovertaking feeling?
• Why we can not change the behaviour, even when we understand, that we behave " silly "?
• How to find wife / husband?
• What is trust?
• Money in the family
• In what way does passion differs from love?
• Whether 100 % of the truth is dangerous?
• Why we can not again grow fond?
• Sex: freedom and promiscuity.
• What is aggression?
• Meaning (importance) of conflicts.
• Whether there are good and bad feelings?
• Alchemy of love: the victim, sublimation, creativity.
• Whether it is well to have an ideal of a favourite, and whence you have taken it?
• An interethnic ( international) marriage
• Trust in relations.
• Why it is dangerous to search at length for love in the Internet.
• Children and a new family.
• What is the distance between the people?
• In searches beloved.

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Your history can be commented by the psychologist according to your desire.

(countries, custom-house, visas, customs, history)

There are no obstacles for love. Well, it’s fair enough. To find his love the Knight goes to the other end of the world, fights the monsters, solves puzzles, gets the pearls from the bottom of the ocean for the sake of his sweetheart. All these fairy-tale images aren’t accidental. The soul has to pass a thousand roads to find its Love. Progress gave the human an opportunity to travel a great distance away. And you have found your happiness in the other country? Eight hours of flight – and here you are, in the most distant spot on the globe… so what is �close to’ and �far away from happiness’?

The scientists maintain that the tendency to a creation of a family between a man and a woman, who belong to different nationalities and even races, came from time immemorial. In a period of tribal wars the conquerors married the girls from vanquished tribes. In the issue of culture and civilization’s interaction people of different nations used to meet….and fall in love with each other. So when towns began to appear, international marriages had been existing already. In that way the fortunes of Caesar and Cleopatra crossed.

Each of such marriages is a great responsibility, demanding philosophical, psychological, culturological analysis. For instance, according to results of the research, which had been held for 4 years by the specialists of the sociology Institute (Ukrainian National Academy of science), from 35 to 40 percent of the citizens are prejudiced against people of other nationalities and races and wouldnРІР‚в„ўt like to espouse with them.

An international marriage means not only a combination of man and woman, but a joining of two languages, two mentalities, two cultures also. On the understanding that each of the partners knows and if he/she doesn’t love, then at least respects the language, literature and culture of a nation, whose representative he/she tied his fate with. However the other variant is possible – one of the spouses (as a rule that who changes the country of residence), is obliged to be dissolved in a new environment, absolutely assimilated within it.

Psychologists, sociologists and demographers and other specialists suppose that in a new millennium a grandiose globe’s migration (naturally determined effect of an “iron curtain’s” downfall and stereotype’s destruction) will lead to a growth of international families’ numbers.

You can fall in love anytime, anyway, anywhere…but the strength of feeling is checked by time, distance and circumstances. Is the distance your heartfelt girlfriend/boyfriend lives so important for you? You can find on the site of www.meeting42.com : men and women of Great Britain, men and women of Germany, men and women of Austria, men and women of Switzerland, men and women of France, men and women of Belgium, men and women of the USA, men and women of Canada, Russia and Ukraine, Scandinavian countries and regions...

The decision has been taken (almost). What can we learn about the other country's traditions, customs, legislation? Eventually, how to visit or marry somebody if you live in different countries?
Visa legislation of different countries, visas of fiancГ©e fiancee, legal support abroad, centers of support of women protecting from sexual exploitation

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The fairy tale turns out in our life, when we like Others and Ourselves.

To be in love is a wonderful adventure. The philosophy of love is a belief in ourselves and another, in the boundless opportunities to change life for the best, to achieve the highest level of bonding with other person. It raises the person to a new level of consciousness, energy, life. So let's grow fond right now, not postponing …. Is it native?

Where to begin? First of all - to believe, that inside each of us there lives the Force capable to specify to us the way to a new perfect life where there will be a mutual understanding, mutual support, interaction, mutual acceptance, mutual forgiveness, patience, attraction and love. For this purpose it is necessary to believe, that such is possible, then really to want.

Stories show how it can be a reality and how it has already happened for some people who "have dared" to grow fond. Several years ago I read one of these such stories. It so amazed me, that since then I have started to study this beautiful, simple and at the same time complex science – to see love in its simple yet wonderful glory. During the difficult periods of my life it often helps me to adjust myself to positive thinking, a belief in goodness, kindness etc.

Do not wait until you become accomplished. The dissatisfaction with ones self is only a reason to self-research, but not to stop. Know: romantic love is a reality! Happy marriage is a display of this reality.

But on a question, what is happiness, each of all of us all the same will answer with his own story. Send mail.

What can we do to make our relations intimate and warm?

The mobile phone and the internet in our hands can transcend all barriers.

SMS can reach you wherever you might be, whatever the time may be, and however busy you may be. And then we will be in touch with our soulmate. A romantic SMS message is powerful enough to lift the emotions of our sweatheart, uplift her/his spirits, engage our creativity and dispel boredom from the life of our relationship.

The love SMS messages take just seconds to zip across the world, entering the recipient's mobile and heart in a way that is like no other.

Romantic SMS messages are so evocative and emotional! Look for texts or read the SMS that could inspire you.

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(a description of romantic acts, romantic presents)

What is needed to be a romantic person? Anything special? What is romance itself and how to involve it in your life? What is necessary to show your love and how to do it? What kind of love had those who we call “outstanding people”? What romantic acts did they do?

We have been making and still make careful studies of tiny and big secrets of new loving couples and couples who lived till their silver and golden weddings. And this is so amazing! What about us? What can we discover?

• Romantic gestures other people committed and advice for you how to find them
• Secrets of fine gestures, romantic presents – what are they?
• What romantic presents did we/you make? Is it possible to discover them yourself?
• What other inimitable, special, unforgettable things can we make to show we love somebody?
  

If people are able to see each other in a way they did on a day of their first acquaintance and learn to show joy to each other every day, then they will have every chance to live to a venerable age together in love.

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The NAME
Nothing in life happens by chance. The large meanings (importance) has for the person his Name, which he receives at birth. To name the person, to give him a name, is to overcome chaotic fluidity of life, means to make the world more intelligent. The name is inseparable from the person. A name - companion, which accompanies each of us on the long road of life. Maybe you have reflected on how it is a lot of in life depends on your name? Your name determines the colours in which your destiny will be painted. It gives you important qualities, determines your aspirations and creativity. Your name becomes your source of power and prosperity. Learn about it and grow fond of it. Have a look under the heading " Secret of a name ", to learn more about it and you will get acquainted with the meanings of many names.
ANGEL DAY
Each of us who has a name also has an Angel Keeper who is always with us and who helps us keep to the straight and narrow; or at least on our chosen path in life. Our Angel Keeper is pleased when he/she sees us happy, and he/she helps us to overcome our difficulties. And this, our very own Angel, deserves our special thanks for all his efforts as he conducts us through our lives. A name-day or the Day of the Angel, is a very special holiday. So let’s really have an Angel Day, this special day dedicated to our Angel by name – and let’sreally make it as a special holiday. It can be our spiritual birthday because it is connected to the names which are borne by our heavenly patrons.
Let’s make it a celebration – an occasion for a joyful event, an excuse for a party! Send your partner a congratulations letter or card or anything else you can think of in the Day of his/her Angel!…
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